age with grace
dance with reckless abandon

shackles are not costume jewellery

humanity and the superficial

the snake was not to blame
eve was not to blame

God told adam not to eat the apple
God did not tell eve nor did He tell the snake not to eat the apple

and everything was still okay when eve bit the apple

it was only when adam bit the apple that it all went pear shape

to give a shit
or not to give a shit
that is the question!

My name is Kevin.
I’ve been married for twenty years or so. I earn a lot, have two great children, live in a big house, and I drive a fancy car and have a good wife.

My wife and I hardly have sex. She’s put on so much weight over the last few years. I don’t find her attractive anymore. I enjoy having sex with my lover. She is open to exploring sexually. She is sexy and turns me on.

I will never leave my wife. I cannot allow my affair to be exposed. I will not lose the respect of my family and friends. I will not hurt my children. I love my wife.

My name is John.
I’ve been married for nineteen years or so. I was never attracted to my wife and I’m not sure why I stayed with her until now. I have two children, aged 2 and 6. You would wonder why we had children so late when there is no sexual chemistry between us but she wanted a child and then another so I agreed.

We haven’t had sex in over a year.

I met a woman on line. A website for married folk who want to have sex but don’t have the courage to leave their spouses, for the sake of the children, the house, the car and the other investments, and of course, what would the neighbours say. I was quite happy to have sex outside my marriage and still keep my marriage but my lover got bored and moved on.

I want to leave my wife but I have to be very sure that I am leaving to greener pastures or else, will it really be worth it?

My name is Pete.
I have been with my partner for eighteen years. I’ve never married her. I was never sure she was quite the one. We have a daughter.

I met a woman who fell in love with me. She was quite something. She was the woman I had dreamed about but felt I would never have. Eventually my partner found out that I was seeing her. She got very angry and when it came to the crux of it, I couldn’t leave and ended my affair with my lover.

A year later, feeling I had made the wrong decision and knowing that my lover was still very much in love with me I made contact with her again. Eventually my partner found out and she got very angry.

I ended it with my partner but didn’t move out. I was in love with my lover but couldn’t commit to her entirely because I felt obligated to my partner and my daughter. My lover got upset that I was divided and not committed to one or the other so she ended it and as if I never left my partner, we resumed our relationship. Moved house too.

My name is Jon
I married my wife soon after we met. We moved country soon after and we had a son two months after that. My wife and I lost focus of each other. We separated. I have a girlfriend. I’ve had a few since then. I still sometimes turn to my wife for sex but she refuses.

She wants my respect.

My wife can do better than me.

My name is Don
I fell in love with a beautiful girl. I married her and we had a son. Years later, I left my wife because I didn’t want the responsibility anymore.

Now 15 years later, I am still alone and still in love with my wife.

I regret leaving my wife and my son.

My name is Paul
I met a woman on line. A nice woman. She has two children.

I persuaded her that I wanted to spend a weekend in her company after establishing that there was a chemistry between us. There was.

I kept her near me when and if I wanted her by lying to her. She found me out.

I will never see her again. I’ll have to find another woman to bullshit and screw now.